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Ah Counter At our first new member orientation, there were
a lot of questions asked about the role of the Ah Counter. I'd like to take a
moment to go over why we have the Ah Counter and how the function works. Most
important rule: We don't click guests. Second most important rule: We
don't click the three prepared speakers for the night. Exception: Guests
or prepared speakers may ask that you click them. If so, that means that decreasing
their fillers is important to them and you should click as if the rule didn't
exist. My personal rule: I don't click evaluators unless they ask. This
is totally up to your discretion. Why do we click anyway?
Clicking provides immediate feedback that a filler has been
used. Countless psychological studies have shown that people have an easier time
changing behavior when they receive immediate feedback. Getting a report at the
end of the meeting (delayed feedback) saying that you had 10 fillers, on the other
hand, is not helpful. By this time, you can't remember what you did, so your brain
can't process the necessary changes. At a recent TI training event, one
club rep shared that their club had discontinued the click but continued giving
end of meeting reports. New members eventually complained that they were frustrated
that they weren't decreasing their use of fillers. Once the click was reinstated,
those new members were able to clean up their speaking habits rapidly. Clicking
works! If you are the Ah Counter, please use the clicker. You are doing
people a service and helping them progress towards their goal of becoming a better
speaker. I just got clicked. What should I do?
When you hear the click, keep going. Don't apologize, don't acknowledge the
click, don't thank the ah counter, and don't make a face. Just keep going. Your
brain is processing the click and why it happened. That's all that is important.
Any other reaction to the click is a distraction from the other things you are
trying to achieve with your speech, evaluation, or table topic.
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