President's
Tip of the Week
The
Ah Counter
(3/10/08)
At
our first new member orientation, there were a lot of questions asked about the
role of the Ah Counter. I'd like to take a moment to go over why we have the Ah
Counter and how the function works.
Most important rule: We don't click
guests.
Second most important rule: We don't click the three prepared
speakers for the night.
Exception: Guests or prepared speakers may ask
that you click them. If so, that means that decreasing their fillers is important
to them and you should click as if the rule didn't exist.
My personal
rule: I don't click evaluators unless they ask. This is totally up to your discretion.
Why do we click anyway?
Clicking provides
immediate feedback that a filler has been used. Countless psychological studies
have shown that people have an easier time changing behavior when they receive
immediate feedback. Getting a report at the end of the meeting (delayed feedback)
saying that you had 10 fillers, on the other hand, is not helpful. By this time,
you can't remember what you did, so your brain can't process the necessary changes.
At a recent TI training event, one club rep shared that their club had
discontinued the click but continued giving end of meeting reports. New members
eventually complained that they were frustrated that they weren't decreasing their
use of fillers. Once the click was reinstated, those new members were able to
clean up their speaking habits rapidly. Clicking works!
If you are the
Ah Counter, please use the clicker. You are doing people a service and helping
them progress towards their goal of becoming a better speaker.
I
just got clicked. What should I do?
When you hear the click,
keep going. Don't apologize, don't acknowledge the click, don't thank the ah counter,
and don't make a face. Just keep going. Your brain is processing the click and
why it happened. That's all that is important. Any other reaction to the click
is a distraction from the other things you are trying to achieve with your speech,
evaluation, or table topic.